In a famous episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation, Captain Picard is taken prisoner by the Romulans and subjected interrogation and attempted brain-washing. The brain-washing attempt is fairly direct and simple and, I'm given to understand, is actually more or less how brain-washing works - get the victim to agree to something they know to be false. Get them to agree to a lie.
Eventually, he responds one last time (just before being rescued): "There... are... FOUR... lights!"
Well, America is being brain-washed right now. As I type this, you are being asked - even coerced - to agree to a lie: that a man can be a woman, or that a woman can be a man.
And I am here to proclaim- there are four lights.
Honestly, I'm not even sure why this is an issue, but suddenly it seems you can't turn around without tripping over someone decrying how it's unfair that men can't use women's restrooms. It's unfair, we're told, that transgender people are "barred" from using the restroom "of the gender they identify with." And if you bring up the idea that, hey, maybe some pervs will use reduced scrutiny to engage in their pervishness, you'll get two responses: 1) "Oh, that won't happen." and 2) "Pervs are going to be perverted anyway, our rules can't bend to them."
Without addressing either of these responses directly (because they're both stupid and I don't have time to waste on such stupidity), it is important to see the hidden premise behind them - that transgender people really ARE transgender. That is, that they're really in the "wrong" body.
This is absolute nonsense. To explain, we first have to clear some things up.
First off, there is the fact that "gender" really is a social construct, and it is mostly tied to masculinity and femininity. That is why in many Latinate languages, nouns have a gender (and the rules seem weird to us). Gender has nothing to do with your biology, and really has nothing directly to do with any specific human. Humans do not have a "gender." Humans, being sexual beings (that is: we reproduce sexually) have a sex.
Which leads into the next part: you can't be the wrong sex. Sex is a biological constant. With such few exceptions that I'm offended I have to mention them, humans are born with two sex chromosomes - the X chromosome and the Y chromosome. These can be paired in two ways - XX or XY. If you have two X chromosomes, you're what we call "female" and if you've got an X and a Y you're what we call "male." This is a biological fact which does not change in our lifetime. If you believe you are the wrong sex it is your belief - not your sex - which is wrong.
Now, there is nothing inherently evil or immoral about having a mistaken belief about your own biology. There's not even anything inherently evil or immoral about dressing as though you were the opposite sex. Assuming you are someone who has a mistaken belief about your own biology and who dresses as though you are the opposite sex, there is nothing inherently evil or immoral about using the restroom of the opposite sex.
I don't think any conservative will disagree with the above statements. What a conservative says is this: "I should not be bound by your mistaken belief." It should be obvious that anyone with such a mistaken belief is not viewing the same reality as the rest of us. If you have a penis and you think you're a girl, you're not wrong in the way that someone who thinks the earth is flat is wrong (though you're not far off); you're wrong in the way that someone who thinks they're a duck is wrong. You, in short, have a delusion.
And it is no kindness for society to indulge your delusion. Deluded people are crazy; who knows what they'll do next? I would be as uncomfortable in a restroom with a girl who thinks she's a guy as I would be in a restroom with some dude who was talking to the sky about how the aliens were never going to take him alive again.
So tell me, why does the deluded person's "comfort" trump my own? Why does he (or she) get to be "comfortable" while I must be uncomfortable? Why must objective reality comport itself to his (or her) subjective unreality?
By the way, the secret that the Progressives don't want you to realize? Real "passing" transvestites have been using the restroom of their choice without molestation or objection for decades. With the possible exception of random bigots no one harassed them, and even then, the bigots could only harass them if they knew. So this isn't about them. This isn't about "Elsa" who was born John but has been passing as a woman for five years and you never knew. This is about "Fran" who has more hair on "her" back and arms than a gorilla and whose wang hangs out of "her" micro-miniskirt.